Internal Family Systems (IFS)

“IFS is a loving way of relating internally (to your parts) and externally (to the people in your life), so in that sense, IFS is a life practice, as well. It’s something you can do on a daily, moment-to-moment basis—at any time, by yourself or with others.”

- Dr Richard Schwartz, Creator of Internal Family Systems Therapy

IFS therapy is based on a few key beliefs:

  • Everyone has a self. You can’t lose it. It can’t be damaged. It knows how to heal.

  • Mind is naturally multiple and that is a good thing. Life is complicated. We need all our parts to navigate it.  But, things go much better for us, if our parts harmonize and collaborate, rather than working against one another.

  • Our inside world mirrors our outside world.  Just like members of a family, inner parts are often forced from their valuable states into extreme roles within us. 

  • When a person has been hurt, humiliated, frightened, or shamed in the past, he or she will have parts that carry the emotions, memories, and sensations from those experiences.

  • We can learn to differentiate between our true self and parts that serve a more limited role.  We can, over time, begin to connect with and trust our own self-energy, inner wisdom, care and presence.

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